OPINION ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND?
My beloved is the really overworked man, constant as well as all the great thing the lady would ever ask for the man.
He is additionally the dedicated Apostolic Christian. He goes to church each Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday as well as Sunday
(Church Service, Sunday School etc.) Also, he wakes up during 3am each singular day only to pray, review the bible and
bible investigate online prior to starting to work. It drives me funny as well as we am removing worried, He was the single time upset
because he longed for church for the day or dual since they had to work late in the office. He pronounced he would
considerlooking for an additional pursuit if which happens again. He additionally brings his really outrageous as well as thick Bible wherever
he goes as well as reads it at your convenience probable (lunch mangle etc). He have review the Bible behind to behind the million times
over as well as over again as well as he pronounced he would still do over as well as over again. (note he additionally reads Bible Study online)
He additionally referred to which he prays for me bland which we would go to sky as well as blah bla
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You should be thankful that has such strong convictions. It sounds like to me that he is very happy with his religion. If you are having a problem with it then now is the time to reconsider your relationship with him, not after you are married. If this isn’t what you want in a husband then you need to be honest with him and let him find someone who does. The worst thing you can so is to stay with him and expect him to change his values for you. You will both end up miserable. You should be thankful that your only complaint is that he is “too” religious. Be thankful that you’re not on here complaining that he’s is a drug addict that beats you and sleeps around and has 10 children by a bunch of different women. It sounds like you have a very nice, kind, considerate guy, why don’t you try to embrace that part of him and try to understand why he is so passionate about it? Good luck
aww, hunnie, are you sure this is the guy for you? it sounds that you have issues with his religion… when you get married, theres a very real possibility that he wont change, and will still be spending all that time @ church etc.. areyou ok with that? mixing religions is a h ard hard thing… it requires give and take on BOTH sides… think long and hard if this is the guy for you…. as religious as he sounds, theres also a real chance that say you guys get married… and a year from then you decide you cant handle it– i can almost bet that he will try not to divorce.. your best bet would be to sit him down, and discuss it.. good luck —
btw, i am not a non-christian… just a bad one. I dont go to church but, i do believe in God, Heaven and Hell etc etc…
and i know from personal experiance that marrying someone outside your religion is extremely hard….
This is why dating for a long time is the best option. You learn about each other more.
It appears he has reached the level of Bible thumping lunatic since his replies are all based around what it says. Going to church 4 days a week and becoming upset if he misses are serious signs of his devotion to his religion. Since he has to “pray” for you to go to heaven, he is indicating his belief that you will not achieve that goal unless you follow the same path as he. It will only become worse.
If you have no intention of following his religious path, then I suggest you end it NOW.
most of us can tolerate almost everything in the begining, but when times went by we start to have second thought..why i have to tolerate?
As u had said, u are getting married next year but u are having 2nd thought now, i suggest u really need to take a break from him or your marriage will end up worse. Not everybody can accept his over dedicated attitude. You cant change him unless u change yourself.
it sounds like he already is a bible thumper..sucks for you
I hate to say this, but I really wonder if you’re right for each other. It sounds like he’s obviously very religious, whereas you are not. And if this is causing conflicts now, imagine what problems it would cause once you married and started living together.
There is always too much of a good thing, even the Bible. I would worry that he would expect you to change your behavior to match his after you are married. He is already a serious bible-beater. There are wise things to remember day to day in the bible, but there are also many contradictory things.
I think he is going a little too far, but that’s my opinion. What you have to decide is whether you are comfortable with his lifestyle or not.
You can never over do it. God wants you to be fully dedicated to him all the time. He wants you to pray every day and spend time with him. If it is cutting out a significant amount of time that he can’t spend with you, then maybe you should talk to him. God wants us to be with him always, but that doesn’t require you to read the BIble 3 hundred times. If that’s what he feels God is calling him to do, let him do it. God’s plans are always right, and believe me, they always work out. So even though I can see where you are coming from, I don’t think that there’s anything that you can say that will make him stop reading his Bible and praying. It’s a part of who he is, and let me tell you, you are one lucky girl for that.
Yes, he is a nutcase…run away before it’s too late!
It sounds as if you are wrong for each other. He is a true dedicated believer, and you seem pretty wishy-washy about God. If he wants to be a pastor he needs a wife who is dedicated to God